Do Dogs Love People More Than They Love Other Dogs?
Updated Blog: Do Dogs Love People More Than They Love Other Dogs?
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This is one of those questions that comes up all the time in training conversations:
Does my dog love me more than other dogs?
I’ve shared this article before, but it’s worth revisiting because it tackles that question using actual science, not outdated “alpha” or dominance-based thinking that still gets repeated far too often in dog training circles.
The original article from Psychology Today, “Do Dogs Love People More Than They Love Other Dogs?”, does a great job explaining why dogs are not wolves, and why applying wolf-pack hierarchy ideas to pet dogs leads people down the wrong path.
Dogs have evolved alongside humans for thousands of years. Their bond with people isn’t about rank or control — it’s about attachment. That’s why dogs may enjoy playing with other dogs, but still look to their humans for safety, comfort, and guidance.
This distinction matters. When we stop viewing dogs through an “alpha” lens, training becomes clearer, kinder, and far more effective — whether you’re working on basic manners or serious behavior issues.
If you’ve ever been told you need to dominate your dog or “be the alpha,” this article is a solid reminder of why that thinking doesn’t hold up under modern research.
Read the original article here: Do Dogs Love People More Than They Love Other Dogs? — Psychology Today
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